One outcome of living through a time of a global pandemic has been the realisation that many of us have been simply working too hard, prioritising work above everything else to the detriment of those other parts of our life we hold most dear.

The Great Resignation is the outcome.

If you’ve decided the ways things were isn’t for you anymore, what changes have you made to your own circumstance.
Have you moved to a new location?
Changed jobs?
Or cut down on your working hours?

Taking a risk can feel scary, daunting even.
So how do you get better at taking a smart well thought out risk, because you know the upside will be good, even though those thoughts of self-doubt and fear of failure keep holding you back?

Stress is one of those things that can cause a lot of angst when we feel we’ve reached the limit of our coping skills. Tipping over into the danger zone of too much stress, whether short or long, triggers the stress response that is primarily designed to keep us safe.

But what if you could hack your stress to make it more useful to you?

If living in the “Time of Covid” has left you feeling more than a little unsettled, anxious and fearful for your future, it’s hardly surprising. Uncertainty has become rife. It’s everywhere. It taints our outlook. It colours our world view. It peppers our conversation as the endless debate, blame shifting and finger pointing around who did what, said what, didn’t do, leaves us feeling breathless and exhausted.

The antidote is not certainty, although having some certainty can feel reassuring. The sun will rise tomorrow. The pandemic will pass, eventually. The solution is to be more present to what is happening right now because uncertainty, just like certainty is an essential human trait.

Have you hit your wall yet?

You know the one you’ve been banging your head against for the last few weeks, or is that months?

That metaphorical wall is the one that’s finally caused us to stop and call time out, because we’re exhausted, mentally, physically and cognitively, and it’s putting us at risk of burnout.

If you’re holding on for that One Powerball to get you out of all this stress, well, maybe don’t hold your breath. There are a few on backorder although Amazon Prime have indicated they’re getting new stock in shortly.

Instead of worrying about your stress and that never-ending, ever-expanding to-do list, why not start a to-not-do and a to-do-when-I’m good-and-ready-to list instead and keep your stress levels down that way?

A little bit of stress is helpful to enable you to step up to a challenge, to sharpen your focus and improve your ability to remember details about the situation you’re dealing with. This is useful when studying for an exam, about to take your driving test or getting ready to deliver a presentation to your boss.

But too much ongoing stress triggering the stress response leading to fight-flight or freeze then fails to switch off. Thinking becomes more muddled, emotions fray and sleep disturbed.

And it can lead to mental illness.